Hey beautiful soul. Let’s talk about something tender: when a friendship no longer fits, and you’re left wondering if you did something wrong. In this episode, my radiant friend Chelsey Debruin-Colbert joins me for a heart-to-heart on what it really means when “she’s just not that into you.” Here’s the truth—not everyone is meant to go the distance, and that’s not a reflection of your worth. Sometimes, the release is the miracle. Inside this conversation, we unpack:
💔 What to do when a friendship fizzles or shifts
🌱 Why knowing someone isn’t into you creates sacred space for those who are
🔥 The difference between chemistry and true compatibility
🧠 How adult friendships require communication, clarity & emotional maturity
💗 How to release people with love, not resentment
✨ Why your energy is too precious to pour into misalignment
This episode is an invitation to trust that if she’s not into you, it’s because someone better aligned is waiting in the wings. Someone who sees your magic and mirrors it back. For every friendship that falls away, there’s room for a soul-aligned sister to step in. You don’t have to shrink, hustle, or perform for belonging anymore.
Perfect for women who are:
🌀 Burned out from people-pleasing
💗 Longing for authentic connection
✨ In a season of emotional healing and rediscovery
💛 Ready to prune what no longer aligns to make room for joy
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